there is no good or evil just the politics of men and the apathy of the gods.

23rd July 2014

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lucidnee:

"Hood feminism"

"White women taking all OUR black men"

"I care so much about black men but they don’t care about me so ima slander them everyday on tumblr"

“Stop calling me a female”

*side eyes*

23rd July 2014

Quote reblogged from الشيء الأكثر جمالا في العال with 7 notes

Coke rap destroys young black minds. It dosent destroy young white minds, because a white drug dealer is not a sign of success in white culture
— Worldstar commentator (via 86thatshit)

23rd July 2014

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jonesydaking:

lajefadelasjefas:

msdeonb:

lajefadelasjefas:

pumpsinabump:

Never ending cycle that needs to be broken. #MisdirectedAggression #Misogynoir

I’ve been harassed, cussed out, threatened and straight up assaulted by black men simply because I did not appreciate or reciprocate the advances of said black men. I always call the cops on those individuals too and when the cops rough them up I don’t feel bad at all. I have to look out for me. 

^^^^^^ Truth. Have you read the For Harriet article Why I Will Not March for Eric Garner? It hurt my heart.
lajefadelasjefas
Not yet but I will.

Shorty is still a therm. Fuck her you ain’t gotta march for Eric Garner. Eric Garner ain’t ask you to either because hes well you know….

you know how many dudes been cussed out for similar shit? for not hollerin at some pussy or gettin called a fag because he passed on a female?  You know how many dudes silently go through relationships where they are abused?  
No reason at all to say you can’t support Black men against police brutality because of what a or two or few black men did to you.
As a homeboy said to me, that’s like sayin you can’t support Aids awareness because Cancer 

jonesydaking:

lajefadelasjefas:

msdeonb:

lajefadelasjefas:

pumpsinabump:

Never ending cycle that needs to be broken. #MisdirectedAggression #Misogynoir

I’ve been harassed, cussed out, threatened and straight up assaulted by black men simply because I did not appreciate or reciprocate the advances of said black men. I always call the cops on those individuals too and when the cops rough them up I don’t feel bad at all. I have to look out for me. 

^^^^^^ Truth. Have you read the For Harriet article Why I Will Not March for Eric Garner? It hurt my heart.
lajefadelasjefas

Not yet but I will.

Shorty is still a therm. Fuck her you ain’t gotta march for Eric Garner. Eric Garner ain’t ask you to either because hes well you know….

you know how many dudes been cussed out for similar shit? for not hollerin at some pussy or gettin called a fag because he passed on a female?  You know how many dudes silently go through relationships where they are abused?  

No reason at all to say you can’t support Black men against police brutality because of what a or two or few black men did to you.

As a homeboy said to me, that’s like sayin you can’t support Aids awareness because Cancer 

Source: pumpsinabump

23rd July 2014

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thecouscousking:

ohitsstilljazmin:

madeupmonkeyshit:

Erykah Badu is too funny

ROFL.

Lmfaooo if only this fool knew who he was looking at

look at this goddamn street harassment. 

thecouscousking:

ohitsstilljazmin:

madeupmonkeyshit:

Erykah Badu is too funny

ROFL.

Lmfaooo if only this fool knew who he was looking at

look at this goddamn street harassment. 

Source: madeupmonkeyshit

23rd July 2014

Post reblogged from Lady Speaks of Love with 56 notes

lovelylisa22:

thetrillestqueen:

lovelylisa22:

thetrillestqueen:

lovelylisa22:

Black people, if you had your own business what would it be? If you have your own business now what is the hardest part?

I think about this all the time. I’m a third year university student and my dream includes being self employed and financially secure.
If I had my own business it’d be doing holistic health consulting. That is something I am actively working on. Aside from getting my bachelor’s in health education I’ll be getting another certification this year aswell.
My long term goal includes owning a family holistic health facility. Current obstacles are just peoples misunderstanding of natural medicine and the insurance not covering it.

I try not to think too much about my future but I know I’ll be okay and I know I’ll be doing something in the health feild, specifically with pregnant woman & families.

That’s great. May I ask what Black Health Professionals or Holistic practitioners your are studying?

Dr. Llaila Afrika, Queen Afua and Aris Latham are where I started but my studies now focus more on understanding the science of it all more. I will be pursing medical school after I finish my BA. I go to a lot of health events while in DC along with asking people and talking to elders.

I am excited to hear that. I dont know if you checked this site outhttp://amahealth.org/ but it might be something you are interested in.

working on my own business now. A publishing co. that caters to Black writers helping to market them to the larger world. 

23rd July 2014

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23rd July 2014

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tsunamiwavesurfing:

dipsetflag:

tsunamiwavesurfing

"i let you think that you’re the shit but you can’t out fart me" - j. cole

tsunamiwavesurfing:

dipsetflag:

tsunamiwavesurfing

"i let you think that you’re the shit but you can’t out fart me" - j. cole

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23rd July 2014

Link reblogged from Spor-Addict Thoughts with 63 notes

http://rebelbaes.tumblr.com/post/92663548746/perfectlytense-i-care-for-black-females-i →

spor-addict-thoughts:

rebelbaes:

cmikerun:

perfectlytense:

I care for Black females I really do

rebelbaes:

perfectlytense:

rebelbaes:

boygeorgemichaelbluth:

deepcotton57821:

rebelbaes:

but you all have to stop instilling this fear mentality into the minds and spirits of black males.

No…

I deny it. For every woman that does, there’s one that doesn’t. Everywhere I look on social media today BM/BW trashing each other. For what purpose? How about we each focus on the real enemy and come together without bashing one another?

any “coming together” without addressing issues is flase and will not sustain. 

Instead of pretending that we don’t have issues and sweeping everything under the rug, I move that black males AND females admit that we have both fucked up, and move to a point on how to fix it. 

However one cannot move to this point if one party is always playing victim to the other, or playing the role of the great infallible, unquestionable one.

Responsibility for the community rests in the hands of Black Men. Let’s deal with that. This is the central issue. We are in this condition because of black men, black manhood, black masculinity and the way Black Men address the world. 

I disagree. Black woman are fully functioning adults. They have capacity to contribute and to be responsible for their actions and impact within their communities. Despite what feminism may ingrain in the minds of some females, they have agency.

Source: rebelbaes

23rd July 2014

Link reblogged from Untitled with 63 notes

http://rebelbaes.tumblr.com/post/92663548746/perfectlytense-i-care-for-black-females-i →

cmikerun:

perfectlytense:

I care for Black females I really do

rebelbaes:

perfectlytense:

rebelbaes:

boygeorgemichaelbluth:

deepcotton57821:

rebelbaes:

but you all have to stop instilling this fear mentality into the minds and spirits of black males.

No…

I deny it. For every woman that does, there’s one that doesn’t. Everywhere I look on social media today BM/BW trashing each other. For what purpose? How about we each focus on the real enemy and come together without bashing one another?

any “coming together” without addressing issues is flase and will not sustain. 

Instead of pretending that we don’t have issues and sweeping everything under the rug, I move that black males AND females admit that we have both fucked up, and move to a point on how to fix it. 

However one cannot move to this point if one party is always playing victim to the other, or playing the role of the great infallible, unquestionable one.

Source: rebelbaes

23rd July 2014

Post reblogged from *Black ; No Cream.No Sugar.* with 5,180 notes

nigeah:

heheavy:

yesimbeyonce:

black people who make fun of other black people for their skin tone

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Black people who mock other black people’s accents and grammar 

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23rd July 2014

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blackfemaleprivilege:

youngblackandvegan:

elegantly-tasteless:

blackmanonthemoon:

tinyfennekin:

This pisses me the fuck off. That page is getting an AUTOMATIC unlike I don’t even care what’s in the article but it’s fucking insensitive and I am livid.

Wow……I just

what the fuck

internalized hate of some black men doesn’t allow you to mourn for some black men? how sad

This is the tragedy of the toxic ideology of Black Feminism

blackfemaleprivilege:

youngblackandvegan:

elegantly-tasteless:

blackmanonthemoon:

tinyfennekin:

This pisses me the fuck off. That page is getting an AUTOMATIC unlike I don’t even care what’s in the article but it’s fucking insensitive and I am livid.

Wow……I just

what the fuck

internalized hate of some black men doesn’t allow you to mourn for some black men? how sad

This is the tragedy of the toxic ideology of Black Feminism

Source: tinyfennekin

23rd July 2014

Link reblogged from inhellsdespair with 239 notes

When Does a Woman Owe You Sex? Check This Chart →

thetallblacknerd:

i-was-a-teenage-anarchist:

brett-caton:

talking-fedora:

My mom shared this on Facebook and I just want to point out that it goes both ways with this. Men don’t owe women anything either. That is a bit harder for some women to swallow.

I’ve heard claims men have been sued over this?
In the US: https://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080430130924AAaChjl
"alienation of affection"

justagirl answered 6 years ago
"Yes, it’s called alienation of affection. I sued over it in my divorce.

People are very misinformed. You need to know that when you sign a marriage contract, there is a legal precedent that you will have a sexual relationship. It’s one of the reasons why the marriage license asks if you have syphilis but not other STDs - because having syphilis makes a man impotent, and a woman can sue a man for not revealing that he was unable to have sex.

And we’re not talking about turning down sex on occasion. We’re talking about a sustained absense of it over an extended period of time.

Casey — do yourself a favor and contact a family law attorney in your town who can give you the facts. “

http://hr.umich.edu/stopabuse/resources/definitions.html

"withholding sex and affection"

Hmm. so if men do it, it’s abuse? If women do it, it’s empowerment.


also, http://verbalabusejournals.com/about-abuse/what-is-verbal-abuse/types-verbal-abuse/deprivation-withholding/

Verbal Abuse Journals

Verbal Abuse Is Domestic Abuse That Leads to Physical Violence

Sexual violenceExamples of sexual violence include:…withholding sex and affection; always demanding sex

So by their reasoning, if  a man says no, he will, sooner or later, bash you.
If a man asks you for sex, he will bash you. Neat!

If a woman says no, she’s a healthy independent woman who don’ need no man.

Frenchman ordered to pay wife damages for lack of sex


I’ve never heard of it going the other way of course.

Wait, it gets worse:

http://family-law.lawyers.com/divorce/grounds-for-divorce-impotence.html
"The fault grounds or reasons for divorce vary from state to state, but in many states where fault grounds divorces are still recognized, impotence is grounds for divorce”

So say the wife says “i want sex” but he can’t get it up? No problem! He just gives her the house, the car, and the kids. Then he checks into the nearest cemetery, and she moves onto the next sucker!




Honestly I have no fucking idea why these women can say “Women don’t owe their husbands sex!” and then turn around and divorce a man for not fucking them or call the husband withholding sex (SOMETHING WOMEN DO ALL THE FUCKING TIME) “abuse.” FUCKING STOP BEING HYPOCRITES.

Yo he had to pay damages for not having sex?

Source: talking-fedora

23rd July 2014

Post reblogged from quiet handjobs with 63 notes

perfectlytense:

I care for Black females I really do

rebelbaes:

perfectlytense:

rebelbaes:

boygeorgemichaelbluth:

deepcotton57821:

rebelbaes:

but you all have to stop instilling this fear mentality into the minds and spirits of black males.

No amount of “playing the game” shucking and jiving, grinnin and skinnin,” and “just be humble” is gonna stop anti-black racists from trying to extinguish us.

YOu have got to allow boys to develop…

I really don’t understand this. How did a (presumably) black man completely miss the centuries of racism and oppression white people put us through and blame black females for these issues? White supremacy is to blame here, not black women.

stopped reading at females

if you use “stopped reading at females” as an excuse, you’re not only a liar but an imbecile. if a man should have the misfortune of impregnating you, and if your child should have the misfortune of carrying a y chromosome, I have no doubt that he will suffer the misfortune of being raised to debase himself before figures of white authority. 

dude, seriously? considering a large part of the oppression black women face is being denied womanhood, i think that’s actually a really valid criticism. personally, i’m not really into anything that makes me feel like a horse while simultaneously chastising me.

the fact that you’re placing the blame on black women for the struggles that black men face is just bullshit and has already been addressed. 

a large part of oppression black women face is due to being black. the denial of their womanhood is due to the preceding denial of their humanity or being seen as just as human as others. 

As a black man I am denied my manhood.  By virtue of existence as a black male I am subject to being denied human rights or dignity, subject to being stripped and searched and fondled in public. 

Now do I compartmentalize these things. DO I suffer these things because I am a male? Black? or because I am a Black male? 

The manifestations of racial oppression will appear differently for Black males and females, but only a fool would think these differences somehow mean that the superceding cause is antiblack racism.

As for assigning blame, I am stating a noticeable trend of how I see black females orient their sons to the world.  Now you don’t like the criticism, tough shit. I don’t like the outcomes I believe that needs to change before I give a damn about your fee fees. 

i’m not really sure where you’re getting that i think the root cause isn’t anti-black racism? i’ll give you one thing, i misspoke. i should’ve said that a symptom of our oppression is being denied womanhood. but really, i’m not your student and i’m not a child, so you can spare me the condescension.

and i mean, i don’t like your criticism, but it’s because a) you don’t make sense and b) saying that ‘black women need to stop’  is essentially blaming us for a broken system that we’re all trying to cope within.  you seem pretty hung up on blaming mother, though, dude, so imma leave you to it.

do you deny that black females teach males to act in a docile manner when it comes to dealing with people who represent white authority?

Answer that question. Do you deny that this is a coping tactic, a flawed coping tactic that black females specifically teach black males.

Yes or no.

Source: rebelbaes

23rd July 2014

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23rd July 2014

Post reblogged from Here For Black Girls with 63 notes

homoeroticjahlani:

I care for Black females I really do

dynastylnoire:

boygeorgemichaelbluth:

deepcotton57821:

rebelbaes:

but you all have to stop instilling this fear mentality into the minds and spirits of black males.

No amount of “playing the game” shucking and jiving, grinnin and skinnin,” and “just be humble” is gonna stop anti-black racists from trying to extinguish us.

YOu have got to allow boys to develop…

I really don’t understand this. How did a (presumably) black man completely miss the centuries of racism and oppression white people put us through and blame black females for these issues? White supremacy is to blame here, not black women.

stopped reading at females

^^^^^^^^^

jus some more fuckshit from another fuckshit nigga clearly

you sound bitter :-/

Source: rebelbaes